Spice up your Sex Life

How bored or broke do you have to be to break down to your partner(s) and explain that yes, kinky activities sound fun, but all the avant-garde ones are too big, or even not blush worthy enough to play with? Hopefully, enough to keep reading, WITHOUT your liquid courage or its' equivalent. *Smiles*

10 second dice game 

You'll need a pair of dice and pen and paper.

Two things make this, and make it fun. First: for every side you roll, you'll multiply it by 10 seconds; 1 would be 10 seconds, 3 would be 30 etc. Perform each command for the designated amount of time. List out naughty consequences and assign them to each side 1-6. For instance 

*give your partner oral sex with ice

*give your partner oral sex upside down

*use lube

*use your non-dominant hand to (try and) rub one out of your partner

*give a lap dance

The sky's the limit and how much sizzle you choose for each move on their body is your game.

Play Hangman: Command

This one requires only paper and pen

Test your literacy and your love skills when you adult-up this old game, making your partner(s) guess at your bedroom orders for them like "Keep your tongue down while my cock goes in your mouth" or "Pose on your knees" Each letter in each word gets one space when you spell out the entire sentence you're giving them. Take turns guessing each letter (vowels and consonants with value are at your discretion) and go back and forth until the entire idea has been spelled out to receive. 

To add a little technical difficulty, a bonus shout out goes to Shibari, Japanese Rope Bondage, also known as kinbaku. You'll need rope to your comfort and access to your phone/computer to access the Shibari website or print off your choices early. The traits of this vulnerable art include better communication skills with your partner(s), trust and other erotic appeal. 

Whether my twist of an old board game appeals, or the technique of Japanese play, check out one of these ideas for yourselves and enjoy a little closer intimacy after private play time...