First and Broad Ways

 First thing's first; On-the-first-date sort of first... BE A SLUT and break your own heart NONE...

It may be an outlandish thought to many but a threesome or group sex on the first date can map out your new relationship potential for problems or promise, and spare your heart in the long run. Nude fears and vulnerabilities, territorial or self-absorbed mindsets and broaching the unknown with a new partner/partners are sometimes the kiss-of-death in a relationship. Since all of this behavior stems from jealousy, (an arguable trait, in and of itself, to me, for conspiracies and scapegoating) we beg to differ if our relationship will need RX treatment down the road anyways.

    Bringing up something like a threesome in sex, whichever side the double gender falls on, can be a scary idea. Some partners will take months to years to ask a significant other for this play, and too many times miss the simple fact that it's a bigger deal than already realized. Our world has evolved to include pansexuality, which covers homosexuality, dating transgenders, or hermaphrodites as well. These are categories that bring a stigma to people, and harsh tendencies in judging or disregarding those categories, can (and should) lead to severe consequences. Congratulations though on being a class above, where these are carried comfortably and openly, and new experiences are wrought.

     There are few times that we feel so vulnerable, with the need to protect ourselves with our dignity, as we do when actually naked. Protective instincts should run higher, but these can work with or against us in a sexual tryst; Shielding ourselves shouldn't cost attention to each other. Problems can also manifest when taking on the feat of opening ourselves to levels of rejection when asking our partner for something out of the usual scope. This consequence could be something that awakens a meanness or a paranoia in the pair, and you break even before gains have been had. A learned lesson that early though, with something like too closed of a mind, may bring a reward, allowing us to stop things before an emotional or dignity bearing wreckage occurs. It could however also open the doors to cases of teamwork and commitment building, so a lot should still be remembered towards maturity and evolved beings, the absolute minimum mandatory for engaging in relationships like these...